How To Network for Introverts In Tech Who Hate Networking (But Know It Matters)

Build a career-boosting network without the awkward small talk or bathroom stall escapes.

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    If you’ve ever deliberately joined a Zoom late to avoid the small talk, WELCOME.

    In this live workshop, I’ll show you how to build real connections (without draining your energy) so you can open doors, grow your career, and actually enjoy the process.

    Tuesday, June 17
    🕗 Time: 11-12 PT

    Come Join Us If…

    • You’re craving a slower, more human way to build relationships in tech

    • You’re in a season of exploring what’s next and know the right people can help you find it

    • You’ve built a strong, tenured career in tech, but want to feel seen for who you actually are, not just your job title

    What We’ll Cover

    Why traditional networking advice doesn’t work for introverts

    We’ll unpack why the usual “just put yourself out there” approach falls flat and what we can do instead.

    How to build a network without small talk or self-promotion

    I’ll walk you through how I’ve created career opportunities through quiet, intentional connections that actually feel good.

    Simple actions that don’t require performative extroversion

    You’ll leave with realistic, energizing steps you can take whether you’re starting a side hustle, pivoting, or just craving connection.

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    Hi! I’m Sarah

    I never planned to work for myself.

    But after 10+ years as an engineering leader in tech, I started exploring other ways to use my skills. I swapped the 9-5 grind for a location-independent portfolio career, and to my surprise, it replaced her tech salary within a year. Currently, it looks like coaching and consulting, but in the past, it also looked like engineering, chocolatiering, and even audiobook narration (with dumpling making on the side).


    This won’t be a typical “start a business” talk. I’ll share the real, messy, unconventional ways I figured out how to make a living on my own—without a perfect plan, a fancy website, or quitting my job overnight.


    I’ve worked 20+ jobs (from chocolate making to journalism to tech leadership), and if there’s one thing I know, it’s this: your career doesn’t have to fit into one box. I’ll show you how to turn your skills into something that gives you more options, more freedom, and more fun.

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